The Company One Keeps
- You must summer and winter a stranger before you can form an opinion of him.
- Woe to him whose betrayer sits at his table.
- Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but an enemy’s kisses are deceitful.
- Everyone is sweet to your face until you burn a sack of turf with them.
- Everyone is nice until the cow gets into the garden.
- Two people never lit a fire without disagreeing.
- Strife is better than loneliness.
- Bare is the companionless shoulder.
- Loneliness is better than bad company.
- It is not natural to have smoke without fire, nor fire without people.
- Who gossips to you will gossip of you.
- The best looking-glass is the eyes of a friend.
- What everybody says must be true.
- It is only at home that one finds relations.
- Constant company wears out its welcome.
- Never sleep with a stranger or borrow from a neighbor.
- Be kind to those that meet you as you rise; you may pass them again as you fall.
- A short visit is best and that not too often.
- A man never fails among his own people.
- Friends are better than gold.
- As you live yourself you judge your neighbor.
- There is more friendship in a jigger of whiskey than in a churn of buttermilk.
- Friendship will not stand on one leg.
- Friends are like fiddle-strings—they must not be screwed too tightly.
- Friendship is a fine thing though bitter is the parting.
- Don’t be hard and don’t be soft and don’t desert your friend for your own share.
- Don’t break your shins on your neighbor’s pots.
- Neither give cherries to a pig or advice to a fool.
- Don’t take a slate off your own house to put on your neighbor’s.
- Never want while your neighbor has it.
- Better old debts than old grudges.
- Accept gifts with a sigh; most men give to be paid.
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